"A SMART WOMAN"
by Gabriel Garcia Marquez
by Gabriel Garcia Marquez
How many men have I heard that they want a "smart woman" in their life ! ..
I would encourage them to think about this...
Smart women make decisions for themselves, have their own desires and set boundaries.
You will never be the centre of her life because it revolves around herself.
A smart woman will not allow herself to be manipulated or blackmailed, she takes responsibility.
Those women had a life before you and I know they will continue to have once you are gone.
She warns, she doesn't ask for permission.
These women are not looking for a leader to follow, a father to solve their lives, or a son to save them.
They don't want to follow you or mark someone's path.
They want to walk beside you.
She knows that life without violence is a right, not a luxury or a privilege.
They express their anger, sadness, joy, and fear in the same way, fear doesn't make her weak, the same way anger doesn't make her “masculine.”
These two emotions and others, all together, make her only human.
An intelligent woman is free because she fought for her freedom.
But she is not a victim, she survived.
Don't try to tie her up because she will know how to escape.
The intelligent woman knows that her worth does not reside in the appearance of her body.
Think twice before you judge her by her age, height, volume or sexual behaviour because that is emotional abuse and she knows it.
So, before you say you want a "smart woman" in your life, ask yourself if you're really willing to join her.
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