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Sunday 5 May 2024

THE FLAME by Becky Hemsley

"THE FLAME"
by Becky Hemsley

For the mothers who have lost a child: this is for you on International Bereaved Mother’s Day.

xxx

There’s an order that life is supposed to follow.

An order of breaths we are supposed to take,

as if we are passing a torch from one generation to the next.

And our torch is supposed to go out before our child’s flame is extinguished.

We are supposed to watch them take their first breath. But not their last.

We are supposed to hear the thud-thud of their heart when it starts beating. But never the silence when it stops.

That heart that we once carried inside of us. That breath that we gave them. That life that we kept safe, protected.

So when the order of life is disrupted,

when their torch goes out before yours,

it is as if you too have been robbed of your breath

and as if your heart has stopped beating as well.

There is nothing that can make it less painful.

You would blow out your flame if it meant theirs could burn.

But you can’t. Even though that’s how it should be.

So all you can do is carry them inside you -

like you did once before. Except now they have to stay in your heart forever.

And though it hurts, know that they are safe there.

They are protected.

Because a mother’s love is unending.

Because it burns forever with every breath you take and with every beat your heart makes.

Because a mother’s love is a flame

that can

never

be extinguished. ********

Becky Hemsley 2023

https://www.facebook.com/talkingtothewild

Beautiful artwork by Akira Kusaka

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THE WORDS OF AUDREY HEPBURN by Audrey Hepburn

"THE WORDS OF AUDREY HEPBURN"
by Audrey Hepburn

When they asked her to reveal her beauty secrets, Audrey Hepburn wrote this beautiful text that was later read at her funeral.

′′To have attractive lips, speak kind words.

To have a loving look, look for the good side of people.

To look skinny, share your food with the hungry.

To have beautiful hair, let a child cross it with his own fingers once a day.

To have a beautiful poise, walk knowing you're never alone, because those who love and loved you accompany you.

People, even more than objects, need to be fixed, spoiled, awakened, wanted and saved: never give up on anyone.

Remember, if you ever need a hand, you'll find them at the end of both your arms.

When you become old, you will discover that you have two hands, one to help yourself, the second to help others.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, in her face or in her way of fixing her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes, because that is the door open to her heart, the source of her love.

The beauty of a woman doesn't lie in her makeup, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.

It is the tenderness that gives love, the passion that it expresses.

The beauty of a woman grows over the years ′′

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Saturday 4 May 2024

STAY WITH ME PAPPA by Joanne Boyle

"STAY WITH ME PAPPA"
by Joanne Boyle

I remember the Man

that would sit me on his knee.

The one that sang me nursery rhymes,

the one I called Daddy.

I remember those walks to school,

and how I'd hold your hand.

I'd skip and sometimes hop,

our days were never planned.

Then when I got a boyfriend,

and he broke my heart in two.

You held me as I cried,

knowing he had broke you too.

You then took me to university,

phoned me every day.

Sometimes I didn't answer,

l was led astray.

Then I met my soul mate.

You walked me down the Isle.

You gave me the perfect wedding,

you done it all in style.

The Grandchildren came along,

loved you as much as I.

You gave us many memories,

for those in which I cry.

I try to help you remember,

to stop you going away.

I keep trying to light those memories,

but they are melting every day.

A Daughter and Her Father,

a story forever to be told.

But only one remembers now,

since Dementia has took hold.

******

Joanne Boyle Heartfelt

(picture by unknown)

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I LOOK FOR YOU IN MY DREAMS by Joanne Boyle

"I LOOK FOR YOU IN MY DREAMS"
by Joanne Boyle

I see you behind my eyes.

You are still sitting there,

at the kitchen table,

on the same old chair.

I hear you say hello,

as I walk through your door.

The one that is now locked,

that I can't enter any more.

I smell that familiar odour,

the one that wore your name.

The one living on a piece of cloth

that isn't quite the same.

I dial your old phone number

just to hear it ring.

Why don't you ever answer?

Why aren't you ever in?

I read the morning paper,

to see if the crosswords hold clues,

but there's never any to find,

amongst the same old news.

I look for you in my dreams,

the ones we used to share.

It doesn't matter where I find you,

as long as we meet there.

******

Joanne Boyle Heartfelt

art by Steffi Krenzek

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MY SOUL IS AGELESS

"MY SOUL IS AGELESS"
(author unknown"

Sometimes I wake up and I'm five.

I still want to believe in magic and pixie dust...

Sometimes I wake up and I'm 15.

I have strength and I feel I can change the world...

Sometimes I wake up and I'm 30.

I step on the earth, but I know I can fly...

Sometimes I wake up and I'm 60.

I have the experience and I want to share.

Offer the tranquillity and wisdom of time,

that doesn't stop, that heals, that heals...

Sometimes I wake up and I don't know how old I am and

nor how many passed.,,

And it's in the soul, full of love and memories

that I feel all ages,

showing me a rich and precious life.

And that's where I find my great treasure,

a beautiful patchwork quilt,

unique, and original and that bears my signature.

And on it is written:

*******

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CHASING TOMORROW by Becky Hemsley

"CHASING TOMORROW"
by Becky Hemsley

Today I woke and found myself

With less than yesterday

My life was missing things

I had assumed were here to stay

Things that had seemed little

‘Til they left a giant space,

Left an empty silence

And a longing in their place

And I began to understand

That when push came to shove

I longed for what I’d had

When I’d thought that was not enough

I’d always looked ahead

Was always chasing more and more

Growing so complacent

Of the things I once wished for

Running to tomorrow,

To the weekend, to next year

Forgetting I was lucky

For the things already here

And all this made me realise

That my life can’t buy more time

So maybe I should spend my time

Loving this life of mine

And maybe I’ll be grateful

For the little things I’ve got

That seem inconsequential

But which mean an awful lot

So, tonight I’ll thank the stars

Instead of asking them for more

And I will hope to wake with all

The things I’ve thanked them for

‘Cause now I see that my todays

Are filled with time I’ve borrowed

And I shouldn’t sit around and waste them

Chasing my tomorrows

*****

Becky Hemsley 2024

https://www.facebook.com/talkingtothewild

Gorgeous artwork by Kristina von Wiesen Art

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PUT IT DOWN by Becky Hemsley

"PUT IT DOWN"
by Becky Hemsley 2024

Put down the bag of worries that you are carrying forward with you into this new day.

And set down the sack of regrets that you’ve been dragging along behind you for as long as you can remember.

It is all so heavy.

And carrying it so far for so long is crushing you.

The worries are a future that may not happen and the regrets are a past that is gone.

And you are not there.

You are here, in the present.

Don’t be pulled so far backwards or forwards that you forget to live here.

Don’t be kept so paralysed by fear of the future and pieces of the past that you avoid the now.

So even if it’s only for a short while,

even if it’s only for a moment.

Put it down.

Put it all down.

*****

Becky Hemsley 2024

https://www.facebook.com/talkingtothewild

Beautiful artwork by Zara Muse (@zaramuseofficial on Instagram)

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Friday 3 May 2024

THAT'S MY FAVOURITE THING ABOUT HER by Donna Ashworth

“THAT'S MY FAVOURITE THING ABOUT HER” by Donna Ashworth

When I was in my twenties, an older lady made a fairly common remark about me to my mum;

“she’s very sensitive, isn’t she!” (insert derogatory tone).

My mum replied (with a smile)…

“That’s my favourite thing about her too!”

And I have never forgotten it.

I don't blame the older lady, she was brought up in a society where showing emotions equalled weakness and seeing someone walk around this dangerous world with their heart on their sleeve, was uncomfortable. I get that.

In fact, I instantly took the comments as deserved and punished myself for being so transparent, again. It was years later when my mum’s reply actually sank in, took root and began to grow…

And grow it has.

How ridiculous to believe that our beating hearts full of kindness and love could ever be a bad thing.

That the way we look UP all the time, at the sky and the trees and the beautiful mountains - can ever be a waste of our time.

That our empathy and need for human connection is anything but wondrous.

That our instinct to FEEL, everything this life throws at us is not perfectly imperfectly AS IT SHOULD BE.

And years later, when my sensitivity actually really truly became my best trait, in the eyes of the world, and the books began to flow. Did this person say “Oh how lovely!”

No, they said, “I wish you would write a proper book.”

So, my friends, my lovely wonderful friends…

There will always be people who see your best trait as weakness. And there will be others, (one is all you need (you)), who see it as a joyous sight to behold.

I see it.

And I am grateful for all of you sensitive warriors out there, with hearts on sleeves and outer shells as clear as day.

Thank goodness you didn’t ‘harden up’.

The world is hard enough.

Donna x

P.S: The softest people are the strongest because EVERYTHING hurts… but on we go

Thank you all for hearing, seeing and sharing with me. Brings me courage I never knew I had!

You can find all my books here

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