"Food For Thoughts"
(author unknown)
When someone who constantly call, text and laugh suddenly becomes quit, your first instinct should not be, they have changed, they no longer have your time, they no longer care about you, they no long value or love you,, that shouldn't be your first instinct.
That moment is when your care should be seen because you have no idea, what's going on with he or her there, if you can call, call and your first words should not be one of complaining or nagging or shouting or insults, it should be that of care, try to know if they're fine and how they're doing, your voice should be calm enough to let them know you care enough.
While we pick offense and shout at them for not calling or texting you, you might have no idea if they're in the hospital, funeral, depressed, sick, or even about taking their lives because of the challenges of life, care at that moment is what's need.
That's why its said, if you don't understands your partners silence, you haven't start loving.
What that ""silence "" simply mean Care.
Your first instinct should be that of care, even if you must shout, be sure they're fine before exploding if you wishes even though its not advisable.
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