Tuesday 26 September 2023

I DON'T HAVE


"I DON'T HAVE"
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I am “too much” for some people.
I talk too much.
I say too much.
I hug too much.
I share too much.
I laugh too much.
I cry too much.
I explain too much.
I don’t have “enough of this” for some people.
I don’t have enough status.
I don’t have enough wealth.
I don’t have enough knowledge.
I don’t have enough fashion.
I don’t have enough education.
I don’t have enough experience.
I don’t have enough time.
I am not “the right amount” for some people.
I am not the right amount of cool.
I am not the right amount of popular.
I am not the right amount of fun.
I am not the right amount of serious.
I am not the right amount of interesting.
I am not the right amount of emotion.
I am not the right amount of energy.
You will always be too much, not enough or never the right amount for some people.
Those are not your people. And those are not people you want to be your people.
Be you. Then find your people.
And never let anyone make you feel anything less than what you truly are…
Original.
One of a kind.
Unique.
Special.
Awesome.
Important.
Your life matters.
Your hardships matter.
Your mental state matters.
Your well-being matters.
You matter.
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Monday 25 September 2023

EMBERS AND KEYS


"EMBERS AND KEYS"
(author Becky Hemsley)

When I am older
I might not remember
I might get confused
And I might lose my temper
And there may be times
When I don’t know your name
Because it’s been trapped,
Locked away in my brain
And though it will hurt
To think I could forget you
Offer me smiles,
Hold my hand if I’ll let you
And talk of adventures
We had long ago
Show me the photos
Of people I know
Play music we’ve danced to
And songs we have sung
Read me the books I read
When I was young
‘Cause your voice and your words
Might just be the key
That opens the door -
That unlocks it for me
And maybe the music
Will spark tiny embers
Of memories dormant
And I will remember
Your name and your face
And the words to our song
The times and the places
To which I’ve belonged
And it might last moments
Or minutes or more
As the fire sheds light
Through the crack in the door
But when the door closes
And gone are the flames
When you are once more
A stranger again
Just know you’ll have stirred something
Deep down inside
Something familiar
That I recognise
Something that’s real
That’s not stored in my head
But right at the core
Of my heart space instead
Something that’s stirred
By your smiles and your stories
The touch of your hand
And the songs you sing for me
And though I’ll have no words to tell you
Just trust
That deep down inside
I’ll remember
I’m loved
*******
Becky Hemsley 2022
Image created with Dall-E
Today is World Alzheimer's Day. A disease that is consistently one of the leading causes of death here in the UK 💔 and one that is often referred to (along with other forms of dementia) as 'the long goodbye'.
Sending so much love, peace and compassion to anyone dealing with this - either directly or whilst caring for a loved one. Be kind to yourself.
This poem is called Embers and Keys and is in the book 'Letters from Life' https://a.co/d/17LrMHG

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HOW ARE YOU by Becky Hemsley


"HOW ARE YOU"
(author Becky Hemsley

“What time will you get in tonight?
Text me when you’re home
Be careful if you’re driving
Or if you’re out alone
Shout me if you need me
Or call me anytime
Hey, remember when we did that thing
And laughed until we cried?
Take a coat, it’s raining
Or shelter here with me
Let’s watch your favourite movie
I’ve made your favourite tea
I saw this and I thought of you
It really made me smile
Just checking in, I hope you’re well
I know it’s been a while
Have some fun at school today
But wear your hat - it’s cold
And look the road’s got busy now
So here’s my hand to hold”
We always hear and say these things
But rarely do we see
They’re just lots of little ways
Of saying what we really mean
See, if you listen carefully,
You’ll hear them everywhere -
All the messages of “I love you”
“You’re important” and “I care”
******
Becky Hemsley 2021
Artwork created with Dall.E
'How are you?' is from my second collection - What the Wild Replied

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Sunday 24 September 2023

WHEN by Becky Hemsley


"WHEN"
(author Becky Hemsley)

When did we all lose the thrill
Of running full-speed down a hill
Of marvelling at daffodils
Until the sun went down?
When did we stop spending days
On grassy verges weaving braids
Of plaited, fragile daisy chains
Until we’d made a crown?
When did we begin to lose
The urge to skip and race and move
‘Til we had scuffed our favourite shoes
All in the name of fun?
When was it that we forgot
Predicting ‘loves me, loves me not’
With flowers from a wild plot
That grew beneath the sun?
And when did we begin to miss
The chance to stop and make a wish
With dandelions clocks we’d picked
That grew beneath our feet?
Well I for one do not believe
That we forgot how all that feels
But life at some point took the wheel
And freedom took back seat
It seems that it got left behind
And buried ‘neath the daily grind
But it’s still there for us to find
At any time we want
So climb a hill then run back down
Weave yourself a daisy crown
Then blow your wishes to the clouds
Because life’s too short
to stop
******
Becky Hemsley 2023
Artwork created with Dall.E
'When' is part of my most recent collection

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Afterparty by Becky Hemsley


Afterparty (author Becky Hemsley)

I held a party the other week and grief came.
She wasn’t invited but she came anyway - barged her way in through the door and settled down like she was here to stay.
And then she introduced me to the friends she’d brought with her - Anger. Fear. Frustration. Guilt. Hopelessness.
And they sang in the loudest voices, took up space in every corner of the room and spoke over anyone else that tried to talk.
They made it messy and loud and uncomfortable.
But finally, they left.
And long afterwards, when I was all alone,
I realised there was still someone here.
Quietly clearing up after the rest.
I asked who she was and she told me, “Love.”
And I assumed that’s why she looked familiar - because I had met her before.
“Or perhaps,” she said, “it’s because I’ve been here the whole time.”
And I was confused then because I hadn’t seen her all evening.
But when I looked more closely,
when I looked into her eyes,
I realised quietly that she had been here.
All the time.
She’d just been dressed as grief.
*****
Becky Hemsley 2023
Image created with Dall-E
Sometimes it helps to remember that underneath our grief, there is love. It was there before, it’s there now and it will still be there afterwards.
Love endures like nothing else can.
‘Afterparty’ is from the book When I Am Gone

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CONGRATULATIONS TO EVERYONE


CONGRATULATIONS TO EVERYONE (author unknown)

YES INDEED CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL BORN IN 1930's, 1940's, 50's, 60's, 70's and Early 80's !!! First, you survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a tin, and didn't get tested for diabetes. Then after that trauma, your baby cots were covered with bright coloured lead-based paints. You had no childproof lids on medicine ..medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when you rode your bikes, you had no helmets, not to mention, the risks you took hitch-hiking .. As children, you would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags. Riding in the back of a van - loose - was always great fun. You drank water from the garden hosepipe and NOT from a bottle. You shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this. You ate cakes, white bread and real butter and drank pop with sugar in it, but you weren't overweight because......

YOU WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!

You would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the street lights came on. No one was able to reach you all day. And you were OK. You would spend hours building your go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out you forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, you learned to solve the problem . You did not have Play stations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no mobile phones, no text messaging, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms..........

YOU HAD FRIENDS and you went outside and found them! You fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents you played with worms(well most boys did) and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever. You made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although you were told it would happen, you did not poke out any eyes. You rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them! Local teams had try outs and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!! The idea of a parent bailing you out if you broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law! This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever! The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. You had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and you learned HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL! And YOU are one of them!

CONGRATULATIONS! You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good. And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were

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LIVING WITH THEM


LIVING WITH THEM (author Cody Bret)
Quite a few people think that living as a couple is always sunshine and rainbows, but this is the real reality.
Living with the person you love is not what everyone thinks it is.
You don’t wake up every morning to have breakfast together in bed every time the sun rises.
You don't always cuddle in bed together until you fall sleep peacefully every night.
Its not always having the house perfectly clean and having a home cooked meal at the end of each day.
Living with the person you love is arguing over the simplest of things, like who forgot to take out the trash or who's turn is it to do the dishes.
Or who spent "X" amount of money on something that wasn't a necessity.
And the list goes on....
But despite everything.....
At the end of the day you expect to go home to that special person every single day because you know they love and care about you more than words can describe.
It's about laughing together until you cry.
Its about cooking dinner together and talking about your life goals with each other.
It's about.... if one of you had a terrible day at work, your partner decides to sit next to you, hugs you and tells you that everything will be perfectly fine.
Living with the person you love isn't always easy but it's also having a love that many people spend all their lives looking for.

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"BABY STEPS" by Becky Hemsley

"BABY STEPS" by Becky Hemsley We have to stop thinking that we’ve failed every time we fall. When babies are learning to walk, we ...