THE CORNER 4 WOMEN

Sunday 14 April 2024

NOBODY IS YOUR ENEMY

"NOBODY IS YOUR ENEMY" (author unknown)

*ANYONE THAT ANNOYS YOU* --is teaching you patience and calmness.

*ANYONE THAT ABANDONS YOU* --is teaching you how to stand up on your own feet.

*ANYBODY THAT OFFENDS YOU* --is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.

*ANYTHING THAT YOU HATE* --is teaching you, unconditional love.

*ANYTHING THAT YOU FEAR* --is teaching you the courage to overcome your fears.

*ANYTHING YOU CAN'T CONTROL* --is teaching you to let go.

*ANY "NO" YOU GET FROM HUMAN* --is teaching you to be independent.

*ANY PROBLEM YOU'RE FACING* --is teaching you how to get a solution to problems.

*ANY ATTACK YOU GET FROM PEOPLE* --is teaching you the best form of defence.

*ANYONE WHO LOOKS DOWN ON YOU* --is teaching you to look up to CREATOR ( *GOD* ).

Always look out for the lesson in every situation you face in every phase of life.

Be polite, calm, gentle and thankful to God because He will be with you to the end.

Life had taught me lessons. I do not see people at my cross road, because humans are not reliable. I only see God as the author and finisher of my faith.

*R E F L E C T I O N S*

*When you live your life without anyone betraying, hurting, disappointing, disgracing or offending you, then it means you never did anything worthy.*

*The beauty of life, is that it comes with disappointments and betrayals, from people you least expect.*

*Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time crying over these betrayals and disappointments, and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.*

*Remember One Thing:* *Holding unto anger is like knocking your head on the wall and expecting the other person to feel the pain. You are only hurting yourself.*

*The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty, stupid and ungrateful people, and you will always come across them at one point or another in life. But the best thing to do, is to deal with them with wisdom and maturity.*

*You can’t get everyone to love you, think like you or behave like you... never.*

*We must learn to tolerate and overlook certain things, we must try to bury the faults of others and move on with life.*

*Anger, Hatred and Intolerance have caused most of the world's problems and solved none.*

*Life is short, you don't know how much time you have left*

*I beseech you to take the pain and forgive that special person you hold grudges against, and iron out your grievances.*

*Muster the courage and apologise to that person you have offended.*

*Life is not measured by the amount of money, houses or companies you have, but by the positive impact you have made in the lives of others.*

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BE GENTLE WITH YOUR MOTHER

"BE GENTLE WITH YOUR MOTHER"
(author unknown)

Unfortunately not everyone having a great mom!!

Be gentle with your Mother..

There are times that a quick, short answer jumps out of your mouth. Full of sharp edges that draw blood. And you look away so you don’t need to see the pain you know you caused.

Half of what she does, you don’t understand. The things she allows leave you cold and irritate you.

One moment you want to fold her in your arms, the next you wish you could just shake her a bit.

One day it will all make sense to you.

The things she never told you about, are the very things that hollowed out her insides and then built her up again, so she can carry more and more where no-one can see the weight. Those things that sometimes break her where you can actually see it, even though you prefer not to.

Her eyes notice everything, yet she keeps so much to herself. She steps back and offers her hope for the sake of her child’s happiness. The gratitude she deserves for doing that is far and few between, yet her flame of gratitude reaches close to the Heavens.

Should you be blessed enough to still have her breathing the air of this earth, it’s time you start digging in your gratitude-archives and find the warmth in your heart, the forgiveness in your voice and the same amazement you had as a toddler for her. I beg of you to please, today and every day, be gentle with your Mother.

Because the day will come that her morning greeting will no longer be.

Her words “I love you my child” will no longer be.

Her voice will no longer be heard.

All that will be left are memories..

Be gentle with your Mother.

Saturday 13 April 2024

A PET WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU by Joanne Boyle

"A PET WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU"
by Joanne Boyle

Mum bought me another dog today.

I know that its not you.

I couldn't help but cry

and Mum was crying too.

It didn't look at me with love

or want to run and play.

I know that in time though,

it will look at me that way.

When mum put him in my arms,

at first i felt some guilt.

My mind flashed back to you,

sleeping on my quilt.

The little pup then licked me,

and i felt it tickle my hand.

I laughed and looked at Mum,

and she said you'd understand.

I will not forget you Bertie.

"now what shall i call you?

Ill teach you how to play ball,

and lift your paw up too."

Bertie watched from the rainbow bridge.

he barked and wagged his tail.

He was no longer poorly.

No longer old and frail.

He lived on in the memories

and they would never be apart.

A pet will never leave you

without its footprints in your heart.

*****

Joanne Boyle Heartfelt

art by Steffi Krenzek

#nationalpetday

Friday 12 April 2024

THE POWER OF ONE by Becky Hemsley

"THE POWER OF ONE"
by Becky Hemsley

One leaf can disrupt a whole army of ants

And can leave them all scared and confused

And it takes just one word, even one from a stranger

To render our self-esteem bruised

It takes just one flick of a switch in a light room

To promptly turn everything black

And it only takes one hand to push us too far

Just one straw to break our camel’s back

It takes just a moment when all is aligned

For the sunshine to blot out the moon

And it takes just one foot to kick us whilst we’re down

Just one sprinkle of salt in the wound

And yet when we think of ourselves as the one

Then we think we’ve no power at all

That we won’t make a difference when this world’s so big

And we feel so incredibly small

But it takes just one leaf to announce spring is coming

One seed for a flower to grow

And it takes just one hand to stop someone from falling

Which might mean far more than you know

It takes just a word to make somebody’s day

Just one switch to turn dark into light

And it takes just one foot to stand up for someone,

Just one sunrise to soften the night

So harness the power of one for yourself

It’s a power you’ve held all along

Yes, I know that you think you can’t change the whole world

But you can change the world for someone

******

Becky Hemsley 2022

Gorgeous image by Saraja's Drawer

'The Power of One' is from the book What the Wild Replied

https://a.co/d/dyQRzqb

TOO LATE by Becky Hemsley

"TOO LATE"
by Becky Hemsley

When we are young, we want to look older.

And when we are old, we want to look younger.

And there is a window in the middle of it all when we’re supposed to look as we wish.

But we waste that time wishing

we were taller or thinner or curvier,

our hair was longer or shinier, curlier,

parts of our body were firmer and perkier

and we’d started to use anti-wrinkle cream earlier.

And by the time we realise we were perfect just as we were,

the window has closed. It is too late.

Too late to realise that all those things never really mattered in the first place.

But it’s never too late to start letting go.

To stop wanting, stop wishing.

It’s never too late to accept yourself.

To look in the mirror and realise that all along, you never needed to look older or younger or anything else.

You just needed to look like you.

*****

Becky Hemsley 2023

Incredible artwork by Lisa Aisato

'Too Late' is from Letters from Life https://amzn.eu/d/gexttTP

START SMALL by Becky Hemsley

"START SMALL"
by Becky Hemsley

Life can feel a little 'big' sometimes. A little overwhelming. Suffocating.

We can feel like we have huge bridges to cross

or giant mountains to move.

And sometimes it seems as if it's a bridge too far and a mountain too high.

But just remember...

No one crosses a bridge without first taking a few steps.

And no one moves a mountain without first moving a few rocks.

Every big job is made up of lots of smaller ones.

Start small.

Small voices create big change if they don't give up.

Small footsteps walk long journeys if they keep going.

And small bricks can build huge towers if there are enough of them.

So start small.

And one day - without realising - you might find that

you're halfway across the bridge

or that you've moved half the mountain.

And you might find that life has become a little 'smaller'. A little less overwhelming.

And you'll be able to stand on that bridge for a moment.

Stand with the mountain for a minute.

And you'll be able to breathe.

******

Becky Hemsley 2023

Stunning artwork by Bettina Baldassari - BettiPigna

From my newest collection

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I FLOATED INBETWEEN TWO WORLDS by Joanne Boyle

"I FLOATED INBETWEEN TWO WORLDS"
by Joanne Boyle

I heard my mama calling.

I haven't seen her for so long.

My pappa shouts my name

from the cloud he sits upon.

In the distance I saw grandma

holding grandpa's hand.

They hadn't changed a bit

as they stood there hand in hand.

I could feel my body rising.

I felt I was in a dream.

Yet I could hear my children sobbing.

I was somewhere in between.

The angels were getting closer

as the cries now hurt my ears.

I felt a sense of warmth,

as I was wet from fallen tears.

Someone held my hand,

in fact someone held each one,

but still I kept on rising,

whilst they kept holding on.

I could hear so many voices.

Echoes in my head,

and as mama called my name,

I heard the voices around my bed.

I'm not sure if I was dreaming

or where I was meant to be.

I longed to see my Mamma

but I now had a family.

I floated in-between two worlds,

torn between grief and love

and when I opened up my eyes

I had lost the world above.

*****

Joanne Boyle Heartfelt

art by Steffi Krenzek